不管怎么去信任一个人，都不要全抛一颗心，与人的关系，有时候比纸还易破，好的时候，心坚如铁，翻脸的时候，铁上全是锈，要有多难看，就有多难看。
No matter how you trust a person, don’t give up all your heart. Sometimes your relationship with people is easier to break than paper. When it’s good, your heart is as strong as iron. When you turn your face, the iron is full of rust. It’s as ugly as it should be.
人心太深，防人之心要有；人心再苦，也要自己慢慢消化。
If the people’s heart is too deep, they should have the heart to prevent others; No matter how bitter people are, they should digest it slowly.都说吃的苦，才是人中人，吃苦不好受，但是能把苦吃完，生活就会不同。
It is said that suffering is one of the people. It is hard to bear hardships, but life will be different if we can finish them.
那些寂寞的忧伤都是生活常态，没有必要寂寞就找人，忧伤就诉苦。
Those lonely sorrows are the norm of life. There is no need to find someone lonely and complain about sadness.这个世上猜不透的是人心，无法信任的是感情。用了两年的时光学说话，用了一辈子的时间学闭嘴。
In this world, what cannot be guessed is people’s heart, and what cannot be trusted is feelings. It took two years to learn to talk and a lifetime to learn to shut up.
所以，与其苦苦的哭诉，不如收起那点软弱，拿出坚强的心全部承载起来；与其喋喋不休的埋怨，想获得他人的同情，理解，还不如修炼自己的内心，把承载的苦，慢慢去消化。
So, instead of crying bitterly, it’s better to put away that weakness and take out a strong heart to carry it all; It’s better to cultivate your own heart and slowly digest the pain you bear than to complain endlessly and get sympathy and understanding from others.
